We walked to Midtown for dinner. Reuben at McNellies was yummy. Love this weather.



Soaking up vitamin D and BBQ

Who’d a guessed that December 28 would turn out to be the most beautiful day since we started our downtown living adventure? Walked to bricktown jacketless and are sitting on the deck at Earls. Downtown people watching at it’s best. We were gonna slip into a movie but don’t want to waste the sunshine!

Dollars and Sense!

OK.  It’s time for the big reveal.  I’ve been meaning to provide a “cost analysis” of downtown living, but if you know me well, you know numbers are not my thing!  In fact, I avoid them like at all cost.

So, I’ve asked my number wizard and very handsome husband, Andy, to provide you with a rundown on how our financial picture looks downtown, compared to suburbia living.  Obviously, we save on commute, energy bills, neighborhood association fees, lawn service, home owner’s insurance and home maintenance … but, downtown living is not cheap!  But, the bigger question, which we are not going to attempt to tackle in this post …. “With the current economy, is home ownership still a good investment?”

Here’s Andy’s rundown.  Please feel free to throw out some questions for us. 

When considering pros and cons of our downtown move, economics were certainly part of it, but not as huge a consideration in the final decision as one might think. For years, we’d hashed out typical questions I suppose folks do – like remodel and tackle those hassles? ( sounds like another potential blog ) – Would someone want to buy our house for what we think it’s worth? Could there be a house for sale out there which might offer what we wanted?  Do we really want the gigantic disruption of status quo?  Leave our neighbors and neighborhood we love so much, not to mention our home’s memories?  Will the birds find enough food and water if I’m not around to see after them?  Will there ever be another place with as much peace and enjoyment as on the deck overlooking the backyard (well, except for the occasional disruption by Snickers, the uncanny-hearing barking dog next door – we do love the owners, though). 

Anyway, this installment is supposed to be about costs.  Bottom lines. Comparative analysis.  It’s no great secret or revelation that home ownership is costly  –  what with mortgage, insurance, taxes, maintenance – and the list goes on.  We all know the job of home ownership is dangerous when we take it, yet we do, and we often include in our prayers the aging air conditioner compressor and that it might make it through just one more summer.  But as the famous credit card ad sorta’ says – “joys of home ownership – priceless”.  I’m just not convinced a value can be placed on some things, like how much does good fortune cost these days adjusted for inflation or deflation and how good, really, is our better than national average but still somewhat stagnant, improving or declining housing market?  We fortunately did well on our house sale, so we thankfully started out somewhat ahead.

 So, with all that said, and with all the past year’s bills and receipts poured over, it was somewhat surprising to surmise that we weren’t saving buckets of money as, on paper, it seemed we might.  In six months, the average has been about $400 a month in actual dollar amount savings, but that’s before mortgage interest deduction, which will lower it a little.  Oddly, we still needed megawatts of electricity this summer (go figure) and a little more gasoline as Kathy’s clients spread out over the city and from Lawton to Tulsa.  Then, add on the necessary evil of storage units ( yes, plural ), both cost-wise and inconvenience-wise, which sadly includes running out to buy another whatnot which you know you have several of packed safely away in the unit.

 But, it has been very nice to come home for lunch a time or two a week, which might have saved a little bit, and our gym membership dues for the Edmond gym we didn’t go to much are now included in our apartment rent so that we don’t have to pay extra for the gym here we aren’t going to much, either.  I’m sure over the winter with heating costs rising we will see some increase in savings, but just in time, our 7 – month lease is up, and, naturally, they are going to stick it to us pretty good with a rent increase unless we sign another longer term lease.  Probably a wash there.

 All in all, considering we moved into a very-nice-although-maybe-a-bit-pricey-but-secure-almost-new apartment complex with great amenities right smack dab downtown, which we’ve really enjoyed, the net savings has been appreciable, but not entirely monetary.  It’s also been a savings in time – time to enjoy downtown living as we had hoped we would, and, at least for now, not being stressed dealing with a remodeling contractor.

Interesting article by Lackmeyer on future of downtown projects



Last minute Christmas shopping downtown. Great deals everywhere!


The truth about Thanksgiving in an apartment!

We had all four of our kids, three significant others and Victor, our foreign exchange student from France, all here for four days. If you’re counting that’s 8 twenty-somethings and two old farts, and a 1200 sq. foot apartment!  In a nutshell … BEST THANKSGIVING EVER!  I think we would’ve had fun, even if we were in a one room shack!

Front: Andy, me, Drew, Carson, Jamila. Back: Avery, Allie, Victor and Tuck. (Avery's girlfriend, Angel, missed the photo.)

Four of them slept here in the apartment with us and four at Tuck and Jamila’s.  But, most of the time  everyone was here.

TRUTH: it was crowded but really fun.  No one complained about lack of space.  I had to keep cleaning to keep from being covered up with crap.  The guest room had NO floor space, as we had to put a twin mattress on the floor and the rest of the space was filled with luggage, clothes, etc.  Victor slept on the sofa all weekend, but was a great sport.

TRUTH:  I missed my extra refrigerator.  I had to make more trips to the grocery store as there is no way to store enough food for 10 people for 4 days in one frig.  We used ice chests on our back porch for beer and beverages.  That saved a ton of space.  Also had our turkey fried by Crabtown, which saved frig and oven space.  It was AWESOME!  Probably will do that every year.

TRUTH:  We LOVED being downtown.  Victor and I walked over to Park Harvey for Sushi when he arrives and before the rest of the gang got here.

Victor enjoying Downtown dining at Park Harvey Sushi

On Friday, we had a girls vs. boys bowling tournament at Red Pen Bowling Alley in Bricktown then walked to the Tapwerks to have a few beers, play pool and donate my camera to a thief.

Bowling at Red Pen. Girls Vs. Boys

A few of us walked over to see the Bricktown Tree turn its lights!  Some of our gang went Ice Skating at the Devon Ice Rink.  We didn’t make it to the Snow Tubes, but we still have Christmas break.  We also enjoyed the apartment Hot Tub on Friday night!

TRUTH:  We couldn’t have done it without the use of our Apartment Club House.   We had 13 for Thanksgiving Dinner and there is NO WAY we could have done it in the apartment.  Andy’s Mom brought half the food and we prepared the rest.  Our complex doesn’t usually allow people to use the Clubhouse while staff is not present, but they made a “special exception” for us!  Many complexes have nice big Club Houses available for residence to use anytime.  But our is a little limited.  It has a huge conference room table and a beautiful living room area.  The girls helped me decorate the table to make it festive feeling.